There have always been conflicts between generations, children and their parents. They are considered a perennial problem. Belonging to different generations, parents and children do not understand or do not want to understand each other. The older generation, adhering to old principles, is suspicious of everything new, afraid of changes. The younger generation, considering the views of their parents old-fashioned, disagrees with their parents, finds many flaws in them.
The problem of fathers and children is still quite acute today. Parents continue to look at their child as a child who is not able to make decisions on his own, be responsible for committed actions, etc. In childhood, the conflict between children and parents results in torrents of tears and screams. In adolescence, when the child has already formed his own views on certain things, the conflict becomes especially acute. Teens dislike both the attitudes that parents seek to impose on them and the restrictions imposed by adults. They want to learn from their own mistakes, get their own life experience. The desire for independence, especially in adolescence, leads to the fact that adolescents begin to contradict their parents, thereby offending them. Often children do thingswhich have rather sad consequences. For example, they become involved in crimes or start using drugs.
I think that the problem of fathers and children is connected not only with misunderstandings that arise between representatives of different generations, but also with upbringing. It is necessary to start raising children from childhood, and not in adolescence, although it happens that some teenagers need education no less than children. When raising a teenager, parents should understand that it depends on their patience and balance whether the child will be able to correctly perceive the information they want to convey to him. Excessive rigor, multiple restrictions will not give the desired result. They can lead to increased tension between the parent and their child. You should not indulge a teenager either, because permissiveness will not lead to anything good. When a conflict arises, it is important to learn not to raise your voice at each other, to talk calmly.This will allow not only to hear the opposite side, but also to find a joint solution, and, therefore, avoid many problems.
