What is love? Everyone sees this as different. The classics say that love is a high feeling, which gives the inspiration, the desire to improve yourself, to conquer new heights, to grow as people. However, there is another side of the coin: someone once said that from love to hatred one step. And it is very simply interpreted. With the same force that you're loved, you're going to experience to his dislike and disgust if they understand that the object of love did not have forgiveness.
For me love is caring and understanding. Most likely, my interpretation of this feeling comes from family. When I hear the word "love" in the head immediately POPs up images of my parents. They gave and give me custody, care, understanding, ready to accept me with any flaws. It is in the family as the primary unit of society, formed the worldview of a child, laid his values. And I was brought up in environments where love is given concrete actions, namely, care, interest.
I once asked their friends: "Masha, Tanya, what does love mean for you?" And answers friends was radically different, given that the friendship we have with a duration of several years. So, she said that her love is tenderness. She believes that it is impossible to love someone without the desire to be near him, to feel his warmth and touch. Masha argued that it is a concept synonymous with "protection". The first thing you'll do in danger to protect a loved one.
As you can see, each person has his own understanding of love. Why is this happening? First, as I have already pointed out the decisive importance of the conditions of family upbringing, as the child is treated by adults as showed his tenderness towards him. Secondly, it is impossible not to speak about the unique life experiences of each person. Everything that surrounds us, all the people with whom we communicate, shape us and our view of the world. From this and will depend on our understanding of traditional values, the behavior in society.
The only thing you can say for sure: love is a beautiful feeling that gives growth and development, but only if it is complete, sensible, meaningful love.
